SERIES: Smart Home
MESSAGE: A Smart Home...with In-Laws?
SPEAKER: Skip Heitzig
SCRIPTURE: Genesis 28-31

MESSAGE SUMMARY
Every wedding creates a blended family. Marriage not only joins a man and a woman, it blends the extended family of mothers-in-law, fathers-in-law, sisters-in-law, and brothers-in-law. The odds for dysfunction run pretty high. Today we consider the roles of God, parents, in-laws, and married children doing life together. How can in-laws be prevented from becoming outlaws? Four principles apply:

STUDY GUIDE
Connect Recap Notes: October 7, 2018
Speaker: Skip Heitzig
Teaching: "A Smart Home...With In-Laws?"
Text: Genesis 28-31

Path

Every wedding creates a blended family. Marriage not only joins a man and a woman, it blends the extended family of mothers-in-law, fathers-in-law, sisters- in-law, and brothers-in-law. The odds for dysfunction run pretty high. Let's consider the roles of God, parents, in-laws, and married children doing life together. How can in-laws be prevented from becoming outlaws? Four principles apply:

  1. Parents Must Release Their Children (28:1-5)
  2. God Can Rule Their Children (28:10-15)
  3. In-Laws Should Reinforce Their Children (29:18-28)
  4. Children Should Respect Their Parents (31:2-7)
Points

Parents Must Release Their ChildrenGod Can Rule Their Children  In-Laws Should Reinforce Their ChildrenChildren Should Respect Their ParentsPractice

Connect Up: As our Heavenly Father demonstrates, what characteristics should parents and in-laws strive toward? Use Psalm 103:1-10 as a starting place for discussion: forgiving (v. 3); healing (v. 3); loving and tender (v. 4); provider (v. 5); seeks righteousness and justice (v. 6); merciful (v. 8); slow to anger (vv. 8-9); compassionate (v. 10). What other qualities and characteristics can you think of?

Connect In: People within the church may struggle with in-laws as they do in other relationships. If you are married, what advice would you give a newlywed couple concerning in-laws? If you are in-laws, what insight can you share? What have been some good or difficult lessons learned?

Connect Out: What advice would you give to someone struggling with their in-laws? Do you agree with what Focus on the Family advises below?1
1 Phillip J. Swihart, "In-Law Relationships," www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/communication-and-conflict/inlaw-relationships/what-do-i-owe-my-inlaws, accessed 10/8/18.

OUTLINE


  1. Parents Must Release Their Children (28:1-5)

  2. God Can Rule Their Children (28:10-15)

  3. In-Laws Should Reinforce Their Children (29:18-28)

  4. Children Should Respect Their Parents (31:2-7)


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